Wow! So much has been happening in our little world since we last spoke. Dulcified: Sweetened by the Education of Life has been named as a three time Latino Literacy Now International Book Award Winner. Being there as my daughter accepted First Place for the photo she used in the Cover Design was priceless! The book has been a team effort starting with the encouragement of my ever-supportive husband. We are honored by the award but more importantly we are truly humbled and touched by the emails and messages we have received regarding how the book has touched their lives or the lives of others. Equally inspiring is how you are using the work in novel and meaningful ways. Please know that we love to hear from you and if there is anything that we can do, please let us know.
Here is the link to a short article on the evening.
http://www.lbff.us/bookawards14thnewyork.php
Looking forward to hearing from you:
lisa@olive13paloma.com
Friday, October 11, 2013
Sunday, November 18, 2012
One-Generation Removed
Today my children and I along with many others served at Mary’s Center in downtown Washington, DC. We were helping stuff bags with food for distribution to needy families this Thanksgiving. The founder, Maria Gomez, was there and she addressed us before we started the actual stuffing of bags. During her remarks, she asked that as we filled each bag we think of each family that would be reached this holiday as a result of generous individuals that donated both food and money and also as a result of those of us there giving of our time. She shared the demographics of our local community and informed us of how many families are hungry on a daily basis. Living in the DC Metro area we are witness to much poverty and homelessness as well as much affluence and wastefulness.
Ms. Gomez also reminded us that several of us in the room were actually just one generation removed from the stark reality of hunger and poverty. Those words struck me because they are most certainly true of my situation. As my son and his friend set up their station to start filling bags, my daughter and I grabbed our first bag to start filling. I felt a strange wave of emotion come over me because the last time I had done that I was a teenager standing in line with my mother filling a bag to take home for our own family. I remembered the sense of shame that I felt then because I needed to ask for food, but I also felt a sense of gratitude to the strangers that had donated willingly so that we might eat. I remember being thankful for each of the volunteers for being so kind and making us feel welcome. Even more keenly, I recalled how I vowed to one day do the same for someone else if I possibly could.
As I watched my children interacting with others today, I could only feel gratitude. Gratitude to my Lord and Savior for the blessing of such amazing children that have a heart for others, gratitude for the gift of health and well-being to be in a position to be able to help, and gratitude for the gift of the humility I felt as I filled each bag remembering how mighty and able Our Lord is that He can use each one of us for His purpose if we are willing to submit to His will.
I am humbled by the fact that I am just one generation removed from living in poverty but I am also keenly aware that through active compassion we can choose to serve others and be part of the solution as others work toward their one-generation removed.
Have a wonderful, bountiful Thanksgiving! God’s blessings to you always!
(PS: Thank you Kaitlyn and Toby for your giving heart and love for others—remember to always Pay it Forward and know that He is Lord. I love you!)
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Shout Out to my Texas Friends
Friends, I will be in Lubbock, Texas on October 12-13,2012.
Friday night's event is open to the public and I would really love your support:)
Featuring: Guest speaker and book discussion leader Dr. Lisa Ramirez, National Director of the Office of Migrant Education in Washington, D.C. and author of Dulcified: Sweetened by the Education of Life.
****First 20 participants to register will receive a free copy of the book Dulcified: Sweetened by the Education of Life so register today!****
When: Friday, October 12, 2012. 6:00 p.m. dinner - LCU Education alumni only, and 7:30 Plenary Session with Dr. Lisa Ramirez, open to the public.
Monday, May 7, 2012
He Sets the Captives FREE!
written by: Jacqui Pate
Jesus says in Luke 4:18
"He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of site for the blind, to release the oppressed.”
Disclaimer…this is lengthy but well worth the read!!
What an incredible weekend! We saw God move in a powerful way in the lives of 16 juvenile offenders and the hearts of the detention center workers and Epiphany team members. I really do not have the words to adequately describe what happened this weekend, but I’m giving it a try…just know…captives were set FREE! The theme of day 1: You are loved!! On Day one the boys came in and really didn’t know what to think about us or the program. Our team made a lined walkway and cheered as each boy’s name was called. They walked through the line with hard faces and lifeless eyes. I thought to myself…”this could be a long few days…” little did I know, the days would go by all too quickly… Our whole job was to love, love, love and listen, listen to these boys. Through activities and talks they were told about how much Jesus loved them and that we loved them as well. By the end of Friday they seemed a little more comfortable and were enjoying at least being able to eat some good food and have a change of routine. We were starting to learn a little more about each of the boys. I smiled as I watched the boys interact with Wade at one table and my mom at the other. Mom’s so great with kids and these boys just ate up all the attention she gave them. The boys’ respect for Wade was evident and they were very impacted as he told them what he saw in them and how he knew they could make a change. We discovered that they are an extremely talented and creative bunch – artists, writers, leaders, helpers… The theme of day 2: Forgiveness As the boys came in the second morning, there was way more enthusiasm…high fives, smiles, a few shy, side hugs… We continued loving but also began talking about forgiveness—forgiveness available for them and people they needed to forgive. Early that day they were given a small square piece of paper to write names of people they needed to forgive as the Holy Spirit prompted them throughout the day. Different members of the team had different “talks" and skits they had prepared in advance. As each person shared about their topic, they also incorporated their life stories…I was totally amazed at how God used their vulnerability to open the hearts of the boys and to show them that other people have been through extremely difficult times as well, but God was with them through it all. We had some amazing team members to work with and many of them had been involved with Epiphany for many years…working diligently. One of the major parts of day two is a birthday party celebration. Each boy is given a small birthday cake with their name on it and bag of gifts. When the boys walked into the party they could not believe their eyes. They were totally overwhelmed by the moment. Many of them started crying their eyes out. Several of them had NEVER had a birthday cake or celebration EVER! And the rest hadn’t had a birthday party since they were very little. My heart broke to see these boys who really did think that nobody cared about them and it didn’t even matter that they were alive. They just couldn’t believe these total strangers would care enough to do this…maybe they were valuable after all? After the birthday party, the boys were even more alive and really starting to believe that they could be loved and I would watch them writing names on their little squares throughout the day… We gave each boy a Bible and then had times to show them how to find scriptures and talked about the different parts of the Bible. My Star, Esgar, asked me questions like: --Why is there an Old Testament and New Testament? --What is a prophet? --How could God become a man? --How is Jesus also God? --Is John 3:16 a page number? It was such a blessing to be able to share with this young man how to use his Bible, to tell him more of how perfectly the Bible fits together and its purpose. Saturday ended with a SHABANG!
Jesus says in Luke 4:18
"He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of site for the blind, to release the oppressed.”
Disclaimer…this is lengthy but well worth the read!!
What an incredible weekend! We saw God move in a powerful way in the lives of 16 juvenile offenders and the hearts of the detention center workers and Epiphany team members. I really do not have the words to adequately describe what happened this weekend, but I’m giving it a try…just know…captives were set FREE! The theme of day 1: You are loved!! On Day one the boys came in and really didn’t know what to think about us or the program. Our team made a lined walkway and cheered as each boy’s name was called. They walked through the line with hard faces and lifeless eyes. I thought to myself…”this could be a long few days…” little did I know, the days would go by all too quickly… Our whole job was to love, love, love and listen, listen to these boys. Through activities and talks they were told about how much Jesus loved them and that we loved them as well. By the end of Friday they seemed a little more comfortable and were enjoying at least being able to eat some good food and have a change of routine. We were starting to learn a little more about each of the boys. I smiled as I watched the boys interact with Wade at one table and my mom at the other. Mom’s so great with kids and these boys just ate up all the attention she gave them. The boys’ respect for Wade was evident and they were very impacted as he told them what he saw in them and how he knew they could make a change. We discovered that they are an extremely talented and creative bunch – artists, writers, leaders, helpers… The theme of day 2: Forgiveness As the boys came in the second morning, there was way more enthusiasm…high fives, smiles, a few shy, side hugs… We continued loving but also began talking about forgiveness—forgiveness available for them and people they needed to forgive. Early that day they were given a small square piece of paper to write names of people they needed to forgive as the Holy Spirit prompted them throughout the day. Different members of the team had different “talks" and skits they had prepared in advance. As each person shared about their topic, they also incorporated their life stories…I was totally amazed at how God used their vulnerability to open the hearts of the boys and to show them that other people have been through extremely difficult times as well, but God was with them through it all. We had some amazing team members to work with and many of them had been involved with Epiphany for many years…working diligently. One of the major parts of day two is a birthday party celebration. Each boy is given a small birthday cake with their name on it and bag of gifts. When the boys walked into the party they could not believe their eyes. They were totally overwhelmed by the moment. Many of them started crying their eyes out. Several of them had NEVER had a birthday cake or celebration EVER! And the rest hadn’t had a birthday party since they were very little. My heart broke to see these boys who really did think that nobody cared about them and it didn’t even matter that they were alive. They just couldn’t believe these total strangers would care enough to do this…maybe they were valuable after all? After the birthday party, the boys were even more alive and really starting to believe that they could be loved and I would watch them writing names on their little squares throughout the day… We gave each boy a Bible and then had times to show them how to find scriptures and talked about the different parts of the Bible. My Star, Esgar, asked me questions like: --Why is there an Old Testament and New Testament? --What is a prophet? --How could God become a man? --How is Jesus also God? --Is John 3:16 a page number? It was such a blessing to be able to share with this young man how to use his Bible, to tell him more of how perfectly the Bible fits together and its purpose. Saturday ended with a SHABANG!
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Dulcified: Sweetened by the Education of Life
This beautiful book offers an autobiographical account of extreme resiliency, as Dr. Lisa Ramírez recounts her early childhood experiences facing brutal instances of neglect and abuse at the hands of those that should have offered love, comfort and protection. Further, she shares her own failed attempts at pursuing a basic education, while lacking the bare necessities of a home, food, and positive relationships—all supposed requisites for survival and thriving in an educational setting.
As you read her narrative, you will come to understand why hers is indeed a beautiful story. You will gain a deeper understanding of resiliency, and the major difference that educators (and all of us as human beings, for that matter) can make in the lives of children, even through seemingly insignificant actions. You will learn that Dr. Ramírez does not disclose her life’s story simply to titillate the reader, attract attention or expose perpetrators. Rather, her motivation is one of compassion, as she attempts to illustrate for others (young and old) who might be suffering and mired in dismal situations, how life can be dulcified through God’s mercy, the compassion of others, and a competent education. She compels innocent victims in similar circumstances to look for that ray of light under the door that will offer hope and sufficient strength to stand up and move forward, instead of being overwhelmed by pain and hopelessness.
Rachel Crawford, Ph.D.
Educational Research and Policy Analysis
www.olive13paloma.com
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
I give you the gift of...recess!
When I was a classroom teacher, I started a tradition of giving people "virtual gifts" on special occasions. The students were then able to give their classmates gifts without limitations. I have continued that tradition at the workplace and the gift you see below is a "virtual gift" given by a young lady ,named Kesha, to a co-worker, named David, upon his retirement. What a lovely example of Words for Friends!
My gift to you for your retirement is:
-That every day of your retirement feels like recess.
Remember sitting in the classroom in school learning the various subjects: reading, writing, math, etc. and not being able to talk or laugh out loud for fear of “detention.”
Ok… now remember that feeling you felt when you just finished eating lunch and the doors to the playground flew open and you rushed out the door to explore all the fun that the swing, monkey bars, open field, and laughter with friends had to offer…just good ol’’child’s play. –Oh!…and breathing the fresh air after being cooped up in the classroom for hours. I can see young David, now, enjoying the see-saw, perhaps, but being oh so careful not to sully his checkered button up, v-neck sweater, and khakis.
Ahhh…the feeling of freedom. The feeling of recess. That is my gift to you. May it be a perpetual and quintessential joy in your retirement.
Sleep with the Angels, Friends!
My gift to you for your retirement is:
-That every day of your retirement feels like recess.
Remember sitting in the classroom in school learning the various subjects: reading, writing, math, etc. and not being able to talk or laugh out loud for fear of “detention.”
Ok… now remember that feeling you felt when you just finished eating lunch and the doors to the playground flew open and you rushed out the door to explore all the fun that the swing, monkey bars, open field, and laughter with friends had to offer…just good ol’’child’s play. –Oh!…and breathing the fresh air after being cooped up in the classroom for hours. I can see young David, now, enjoying the see-saw, perhaps, but being oh so careful not to sully his checkered button up, v-neck sweater, and khakis.
Ahhh…the feeling of freedom. The feeling of recess. That is my gift to you. May it be a perpetual and quintessential joy in your retirement.
Sleep with the Angels, Friends!
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Random Acts of Kindness (RAK) Sightings
Please enjoy a couple of moments of kindness that have been shared this week. I hope that you have a very blessed week and that you too will choose to serve as a witness!
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Egarciam said...
Thanks for sharing such thoughtful & kind gestures. Here are a few of mine:
A women at the grocery store brought a smile to my face when she said my son was gorgeous!
My partner had my favorite dinner prepared on the kitchen table after a long day at work last night.
My son slept through the entire night = happy alert mommy this morning. Ok, maybe this is not a RAK, however it sure felt goooood!
On my way to work this morning, a vehicle gave me the right of way with wave & a smile.
A stranger held the door for me on the elevator & wished me a good day.
Have a beautiful day!!
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June 12, 2011 12:41 AM
Anonymous said...
Today, I saw a guy at the metro walk up the broken escalator from the
platform to help a guy carry all his bags down. I'm truly blessed to have
witnessed such a selfless act. I usually notice these things but I never
say anything...I just quietly smile. Having some health challenges
currently, these tiny acts are magnified for me and my heart jumps with
joy when I see something so thoughtful. And so today, I didn't just
witness quietly, I told that guy that what he did was extremely kind.
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Egarciam said...
Thanks for sharing such thoughtful & kind gestures. Here are a few of mine:
A women at the grocery store brought a smile to my face when she said my son was gorgeous!
My partner had my favorite dinner prepared on the kitchen table after a long day at work last night.
My son slept through the entire night = happy alert mommy this morning. Ok, maybe this is not a RAK, however it sure felt goooood!
On my way to work this morning, a vehicle gave me the right of way with wave & a smile.
A stranger held the door for me on the elevator & wished me a good day.
Have a beautiful day!!
____________________________________________________________________________
June 12, 2011 12:41 AM
Anonymous said...
Today, I saw a guy at the metro walk up the broken escalator from the
platform to help a guy carry all his bags down. I'm truly blessed to have
witnessed such a selfless act. I usually notice these things but I never
say anything...I just quietly smile. Having some health challenges
currently, these tiny acts are magnified for me and my heart jumps with
joy when I see something so thoughtful. And so today, I didn't just
witness quietly, I told that guy that what he did was extremely kind.
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Don’t forget to do Good…
Don’t forget to do Good…
“Don’t forget to do good and to share with those in need, for such sacrifices are very pleasing to God.” Hebrews 13:16
I don’t know that I forget to do good, but I have a problem remembering to do good. Now, this may sound like it means the same thing but it doesn’t. I am talking about the times when I get so busy and caught up doing “stuff” that I fail to remember to do good. I’m also talking about the times that I am emotionally high jacked and choose not to be kind. What’s that all about? Sometimes just because we know better doesn’t mean we do better.
I am reading a book right now that discusses the value of working toward goals in small, even if they are VERY small, steps. So, today I took one VERY small step toward not forgetting to do good---today I put money in the meter for the car parked next to me. The meter was flashing EXPIRED so I threw in enough money to give the owner some additional time. I hope they came out in time! I know that’s not a big step, but had I been the recipient, I would have appreciated it!
Sleep with the Angels, Friends!
“Don’t forget to do good and to share with those in need, for such sacrifices are very pleasing to God.” Hebrews 13:16
I don’t know that I forget to do good, but I have a problem remembering to do good. Now, this may sound like it means the same thing but it doesn’t. I am talking about the times when I get so busy and caught up doing “stuff” that I fail to remember to do good. I’m also talking about the times that I am emotionally high jacked and choose not to be kind. What’s that all about? Sometimes just because we know better doesn’t mean we do better.
I am reading a book right now that discusses the value of working toward goals in small, even if they are VERY small, steps. So, today I took one VERY small step toward not forgetting to do good---today I put money in the meter for the car parked next to me. The meter was flashing EXPIRED so I threw in enough money to give the owner some additional time. I hope they came out in time! I know that’s not a big step, but had I been the recipient, I would have appreciated it!
Sleep with the Angels, Friends!
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
I'm not trying to gossip but...
This weekend I had the opportunity to share something with two friends that has been bothering me. I shared how puzzled and perplexed I have been by the fact that I have received ZERO submissions for stories regarding acts of kindness or generosity. The thing that bothers me the most is that we seem so eager to share the negative and gossipy things in world but less inclined to share a story of kindness and goodness.
One of those sweet friends shared that perhaps we have become desensitized to the smallest acts of kindness and that perhaps we take them for granted. With her comment in mind, I decided to make a mental note of a few kind things that happened to me today.
Pardon the bulleted list approach but here goes:
• My daughter said, “Have a blessed day, Love” as I dropped her off at school.
• The cashier at Starbucks said, “Good morning!” and he meant it.
• A woman at Starbucks remarked about the beautiful day and as I agreed she mentioned that I too was beautiful.
• A gentleman standing outside of Starbucks opened the door for me.
• My husband opened the passenger side of the car for me so I could get in.
• My daughter made me chocolate chip cookies.
• My son offered to take the bus to pick me because he knew I needed a ride and he’s only eleven.
• A friend agreed to take me on an errand even if it meant she would be waking up at the crack of dawn tomorrow.
• A friend at work asked about my weekend hike and she genuinely listened.
• A stranger remembered a talk I gave and invited me to speak at their High School graduation.
These are just the first ten things I could think of right quick. I know many more kind things happened along with some other yucky, not-so-fun things but I refuse to focus on those things. I don’t want to go to bed with yuck dominating my thoughts and energy. Can you share just a few small, kind things that happened to you recently? I hope so.
Sleep with the angels,Friends.
One of those sweet friends shared that perhaps we have become desensitized to the smallest acts of kindness and that perhaps we take them for granted. With her comment in mind, I decided to make a mental note of a few kind things that happened to me today.
Pardon the bulleted list approach but here goes:
• My daughter said, “Have a blessed day, Love” as I dropped her off at school.
• The cashier at Starbucks said, “Good morning!” and he meant it.
• A woman at Starbucks remarked about the beautiful day and as I agreed she mentioned that I too was beautiful.
• A gentleman standing outside of Starbucks opened the door for me.
• My husband opened the passenger side of the car for me so I could get in.
• My daughter made me chocolate chip cookies.
• My son offered to take the bus to pick me because he knew I needed a ride and he’s only eleven.
• A friend agreed to take me on an errand even if it meant she would be waking up at the crack of dawn tomorrow.
• A friend at work asked about my weekend hike and she genuinely listened.
• A stranger remembered a talk I gave and invited me to speak at their High School graduation.
These are just the first ten things I could think of right quick. I know many more kind things happened along with some other yucky, not-so-fun things but I refuse to focus on those things. I don’t want to go to bed with yuck dominating my thoughts and energy. Can you share just a few small, kind things that happened to you recently? I hope so.
Sleep with the angels,Friends.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
In January I challenged myself to periodically write new posts that are centered on generosity, kindness or compassion. I was hoping to keep my eyes open to seeing how these three themes honestly inform and better my life. For now, I am thinking that I need to be even more generous with my words. My Words for Friends! Today if you would like me to have words for you or if you have witnessed an act of kindness or compassion, please share your story on my blog. Send your story to olive13paloma@yahoo.com and I'll be just tickled to post it
Let me know in advance if you need me to change your name!
In the words of my sweet Tim McGraw, LIVE like you're dying
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Because words count...
On March 1st, an anonymous comment was posted to my blog and that particular comment has become priceless to me. The comment was actually from my father in law and he mentioned how proud he was of his son—my husband. He also mentioned that even though he wasn’t good with words, he loved his son.
My father in law has since passed away .
No, we are not too busy to make time for those we love, but we have to be more purposeful about it. Make your words count, friends! Say what you mean and mean what you say. Grant forgiveness but more importantly, seek forgiveness. Respond with kindness even if it isn’t deserved. Show love to others my knowing what they love and providing them with it—even if its brownies!
I loved my father in law and he was always very good to me. He will be missed.
Reach out to those who believe you have forgotten them, you won’t regret it! Have a very blessed day---and LIVE!
My father in law has since passed away .
No, we are not too busy to make time for those we love, but we have to be more purposeful about it. Make your words count, friends! Say what you mean and mean what you say. Grant forgiveness but more importantly, seek forgiveness. Respond with kindness even if it isn’t deserved. Show love to others my knowing what they love and providing them with it—even if its brownies!
I loved my father in law and he was always very good to me. He will be missed.
Reach out to those who believe you have forgotten them, you won’t regret it! Have a very blessed day---and LIVE!
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Emmaus Medical Mission Trip Update
Hello all,
We have sent in the initial fees and are well on the way to meeting the goal. None of this could have been possible without your generosity and kind, encouraging words. We are very blessed to have you in our lives. The process of reflecting on how we fit into each other’s lives has served to remind me of how very precious this journey has been. As I reviewed the list of coffee buyers, I was rapidly reminded of how we crossed each other’s paths. For some of you, many years have passed since we have seen each other. Yet the experiences we shared were meaningful enough to last a lifetime. For others, our journey together continues as we look forward to the next chapter.
I am thankful for today’s technology because it has kept us connected. This mission trip has also served to re-connect us. I plan to maintain postings as the date nears. Please continue to pray for the Emmaus Medical Mission team. I also invite you to post comments and/or send emails related to the trip or the 2011 Challenge!
Remember sweet friends that Mike is not going alone. A part of you will also be on that trip---and I should mention, it will be the most beautiful part of you, your heart! Mil gracias!
We have sent in the initial fees and are well on the way to meeting the goal. None of this could have been possible without your generosity and kind, encouraging words. We are very blessed to have you in our lives. The process of reflecting on how we fit into each other’s lives has served to remind me of how very precious this journey has been. As I reviewed the list of coffee buyers, I was rapidly reminded of how we crossed each other’s paths. For some of you, many years have passed since we have seen each other. Yet the experiences we shared were meaningful enough to last a lifetime. For others, our journey together continues as we look forward to the next chapter.
I am thankful for today’s technology because it has kept us connected. This mission trip has also served to re-connect us. I plan to maintain postings as the date nears. Please continue to pray for the Emmaus Medical Mission team. I also invite you to post comments and/or send emails related to the trip or the 2011 Challenge!
Remember sweet friends that Mike is not going alone. A part of you will also be on that trip---and I should mention, it will be the most beautiful part of you, your heart! Mil gracias!
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Mi querida y hermosa Amiga:
Comienzo esta carta recordándonos como "Susy y Cocosette", y aunque tú tienes más memoria que yo, recuerdo que sólo estábamos en 3er año de bachillerato cuando nos conocimos y con tanta facilidad me robaste el corazón siendo tan original, sensible y sincera...
Te recuerdo en clases inventando travesuras ingenuas, riéndonos y siempre buscando cómo ser felices...
Con una familia maravillosa, una madre única y (aunque siempre le tuve miedo a tu papá) supieron abrirme las puertas de la verdadera amistad.
Llegó la hora de la seriedad e ir a la Universidad, y a pesar de que cada una estudió en sitios distintos nuestra relación iba siendo más y más sólida, con gustos distintos, con caminos diferentes pero siempre podía contar contigo. Compartiendo siempre los secretos, las sonrisas, los paseos y los sueños...
Te me fuiste a los Estados Unidos, te extrañé a morir pero seguías siendo mi amiga y mi cómplice.. Nos llenamos de experiencias (buenas, malas, regulares, soñadas)...
Con tu nobleza y tus consejos, eres mi amiga elocuente, espiritual, sabia, familiar.. "Mi Hermana"...
Cuando Dios te regaló un pedacito de cielo llenándote de Bendiciones con Patrick Junior fue una ilusión enorme y aunque el camino fue duro llegaste a la meta como una mujer valiente.... Te fuiste a luchar por tus sueños y esperanzas, por el amor, por la tranquilidad... Deseosa de una hija hembra, pero como dice el dicho "A quien Dios no le da hijas les da sobrinas" jejeje... Mi hija es tu hija, la consientes, la mimas, la complaces.... Y para completar el cuadro llegan nuestros hermosos "Harrison y Iam" tan parecidos con todo y la diferencia de edad... Y aunque no los conozco en persona, cada vez que nos vemos por Skype es como si nos conociéramos y yo soy definitivamente la Tía adorada jejej...
Ese viaje maravilloso a España después de 10 años sin vernos fue una de las cosas más increíbles y soñadas de mi vida, tanto te extrañé que por fin te tenía cerca, aunque estaba un poco cansada con el bebé tan pequeño fue genial... Y por casualidad fue la final España vencedora en fútbol, jajaja ... Estuvo súper divertido, verte haciendo cosas locas como antes, retrocedimos unos cuantos añitos jajajaja.... Cómo compartiste con mi hija, conmigo, con mi familia... Estuvimos de cuento.... Nuestra escapada a Sevilla!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Olé….. Totalmente un sueño…..
De ahí en adelante no nos hemos separado, por lo menos no dejamos de hablar y contarnos todo… Vernos a los ojos y saber qué nos pasa y de qué humor estamos, con sus altas y bajas, me has alentado a hacer cosas, crees en mí… Mientras muchas personas no tienen idea de quienes somos, tú y yo sabemos que somos definitivamente un Diamante….
Te recuerdo en clases inventando travesuras ingenuas, riéndonos y siempre buscando cómo ser felices...
Con una familia maravillosa, una madre única y (aunque siempre le tuve miedo a tu papá) supieron abrirme las puertas de la verdadera amistad.
Llegó la hora de la seriedad e ir a la Universidad, y a pesar de que cada una estudió en sitios distintos nuestra relación iba siendo más y más sólida, con gustos distintos, con caminos diferentes pero siempre podía contar contigo. Compartiendo siempre los secretos, las sonrisas, los paseos y los sueños...
Te me fuiste a los Estados Unidos, te extrañé a morir pero seguías siendo mi amiga y mi cómplice.. Nos llenamos de experiencias (buenas, malas, regulares, soñadas)...
Con tu nobleza y tus consejos, eres mi amiga elocuente, espiritual, sabia, familiar.. "Mi Hermana"...
Cuando Dios te regaló un pedacito de cielo llenándote de Bendiciones con Patrick Junior fue una ilusión enorme y aunque el camino fue duro llegaste a la meta como una mujer valiente.... Te fuiste a luchar por tus sueños y esperanzas, por el amor, por la tranquilidad... Deseosa de una hija hembra, pero como dice el dicho "A quien Dios no le da hijas les da sobrinas" jejeje... Mi hija es tu hija, la consientes, la mimas, la complaces.... Y para completar el cuadro llegan nuestros hermosos "Harrison y Iam" tan parecidos con todo y la diferencia de edad... Y aunque no los conozco en persona, cada vez que nos vemos por Skype es como si nos conociéramos y yo soy definitivamente la Tía adorada jejej...
Ese viaje maravilloso a España después de 10 años sin vernos fue una de las cosas más increíbles y soñadas de mi vida, tanto te extrañé que por fin te tenía cerca, aunque estaba un poco cansada con el bebé tan pequeño fue genial... Y por casualidad fue la final España vencedora en fútbol, jajaja ... Estuvo súper divertido, verte haciendo cosas locas como antes, retrocedimos unos cuantos añitos jajajaja.... Cómo compartiste con mi hija, conmigo, con mi familia... Estuvimos de cuento.... Nuestra escapada a Sevilla!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Olé….. Totalmente un sueño…..
De ahí en adelante no nos hemos separado, por lo menos no dejamos de hablar y contarnos todo… Vernos a los ojos y saber qué nos pasa y de qué humor estamos, con sus altas y bajas, me has alentado a hacer cosas, crees en mí… Mientras muchas personas no tienen idea de quienes somos, tú y yo sabemos que somos definitivamente un Diamante….
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Would you be willing to buy Mike a cup of coffee?
Would you be willing to buy Mike a cup of coffee?
My husband Mike is going to be volunteering on the Emmaus Medical Mission this fall. The mission will take a group of doctors, nurses and other volunteers to Mindo, Ecuador . Please follow this link and learn a little bit more about a previous trip made by the Emmaus Medical Mission Team:
http://www6.miami.edu/communications/homepage/mission/
I am so very proud of my husband and my hope is that he will return with a very clear understanding and appreciation of the gift with which he has been blessed. He has the gift of helping others through the combination of the compassion modeled for him by his beneficent Grandmother and his years of experience as a registered nurse. When I watch him lifting his elderly patients with quiet tenderness and firm resolve to do all he can to relieve their pain, my heart wants to burst with love and admiration for the wonderful man I am blessed to call my husband.
I have said this to ask, would you consider contributing to Mike’s mission trip? For the $3-$5 dollars that you would normally spend on your daily cup of coffee, you too can impact the lives of the many people they will serve in Ecuador. Of course, if you would like to donate more, we certainly welcome the contribution!
Today, our friend Rachel Crawford bought Mike his “first cup of coffee”!!! Her contribution was accompanied by a very precious note filled with words of encouragement as he prepares for this journey. Thank you, Rachel for believing whole heartedly that great things are going to happen!
If you would like to “Buy Mike a Cup of Coffee” in support of his participation for this mission trip, please contact me at olive13paloma@yahoo.com
Regardless of whether or not you “Buy Mike a Cup of Coffee”, we humbly ask for your prayers of protection over the entire team as they prepare to travel to Ecuador and touch the lives of others in the very sweet name of our Lord and Savior. May His good name and message be shared not only through words but through actions.
Our God is GOOD -- ALL THE TIME!
My husband Mike is going to be volunteering on the Emmaus Medical Mission this fall. The mission will take a group of doctors, nurses and other volunteers to Mindo, Ecuador . Please follow this link and learn a little bit more about a previous trip made by the Emmaus Medical Mission Team:
http://www6.miami.edu/communications/homepage/mission/
I am so very proud of my husband and my hope is that he will return with a very clear understanding and appreciation of the gift with which he has been blessed. He has the gift of helping others through the combination of the compassion modeled for him by his beneficent Grandmother and his years of experience as a registered nurse. When I watch him lifting his elderly patients with quiet tenderness and firm resolve to do all he can to relieve their pain, my heart wants to burst with love and admiration for the wonderful man I am blessed to call my husband.
I have said this to ask, would you consider contributing to Mike’s mission trip? For the $3-$5 dollars that you would normally spend on your daily cup of coffee, you too can impact the lives of the many people they will serve in Ecuador. Of course, if you would like to donate more, we certainly welcome the contribution!
Today, our friend Rachel Crawford bought Mike his “first cup of coffee”!!! Her contribution was accompanied by a very precious note filled with words of encouragement as he prepares for this journey. Thank you, Rachel for believing whole heartedly that great things are going to happen!
If you would like to “Buy Mike a Cup of Coffee” in support of his participation for this mission trip, please contact me at olive13paloma@yahoo.com
Regardless of whether or not you “Buy Mike a Cup of Coffee”, we humbly ask for your prayers of protection over the entire team as they prepare to travel to Ecuador and touch the lives of others in the very sweet name of our Lord and Savior. May His good name and message be shared not only through words but through actions.
Our God is GOOD -- ALL THE TIME!
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Day 2 of RAK Week-
The second Challenge of RAK Week: Smile at 10 strangers today! A sincere smile can make a difference in someone’s day. Without saying a word you are letting that person know that you see them and that they matter. People appreciate being noticed and acknowledged! As Plato said, “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” Encourage ten strangers today by smiling:)
Third Kindness Challenge
The third Kindness Challenge of RAK Week: Hold the door open for someone every chance you get today! Holding the door open for someone isn’t just something people do in old movies, it is a great way to be polite and thoughtful. You can easily do this for your family, friends and strangers. Hold the door open every chance you get today—whether you’re at school, the grocery story, work, or at home, those around you will certainly appreciate your good manners. This is such an easy way to share Kindness.
Words for Friends: To Amber from Jenny
There are no words to describe someone like Amber. She is a one of a kind, so I will do my best to introduce you to my lovely friend. I met Amber long ago when we were in charge of a very important part of our lives, "BUSINESS "! We grew up in different places, with different cultures and backgrounds. Although this is true, we managed very quickly to respect each other, enjoy each other’s company and encourage each other’s natural talents. We were very good at what we did and we always had a good time doing it. (We have collected many stories over time that continues to bring us laughter and joy. It was true team work and the beginning of a lifetime friendship. I can happily say until this day that we never fail to amuse ourselves--always bringing a smile or two to each other’s faces.
We have had the blessing of plenty of memories together, from our trips, parties, functions, conferences; meetings and family. Family is where our hearts are right now. This is no doubt the most important thing for us. Our hearts are set on creating a beautiful world for our kids, raising them together as if they were family. We have grown closer day after day. Each day we celebrate the blessing of being in each other’s life.
There is so much to say about this girl, let me just add that there is always grace, class, thoughtfulness and details in everything that she does. I love that about her. For her there are never problems, only solutions and with her soft ways, good manners, common sense and determination. She always gets the job done.
In the most difficult times, when I have been brought to my knees, she has lifted me up with love, kindness, care, confidence, trust, conviction and loyalty-- going against the natural forces in life. She has held my hand, listened to my heart and walked my path by my side.... waiting patiently for that single moment when I may need her again. Her love and confidence in me have kept me going. Because of her, I believe there is nothing that I can't do.
I simply adore her classic style and grace and appreciate all that she is to all of us that are part of her world. I look forward to our Lady's Time, movie night; play dates, coffee breaks or whatever excuses that may allow us to spend time together. May your heart be filled with love and joy today. I am proud to see the beautiful woman that you have become.
On Valentine's Week I just have to say that true friends and true love celebrate together all year long.
I love you my Amber friend.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Day 1 of RAK Week-Note of Appreciation
The first Kindness Challenge of RAK Week: Send a note of appreciation to someone you love today! You can send it to your spouse, significant other, sibling, parent, child, best friend, coach, teacher—anyone who you feel needs a bit of a pick me up. You can even make a list for your loved one highlighting all of the different reasons you appreciate him or her. Once you’ve brainstormed your thoughts, write them neatly in card you’ve chosen, or just send an email. No matter how you decide to share a note of appreciation, be sure to do it today!
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Random Act of Kindness (RAK) Week
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Words for Friends: To My Friend Pat
Pat and I met when we were in junior high school. Pat always had the coolest haircuts and best handwriting. Pat and I are now in our forties, and we remain friends to this day. Our lives have taken us in very different directions and we have lived through our separate shares of heartbreaks and joys. Pat married young and had a very difficult marriage, later divorced and lost one of her brothers at an early age. I admire Pat because of her resiliency and ability to remain the same beautiful person I have always known her to be.
As young teens, we were inseparable. We went everywhere together, we laughed together, we cried together. The thing I remember the most about Pat is her absolute loyalty to me. She never judged me for the impoverished lifestyle I lived. She helped me with all my chores including caring for my siblings. I was often left to care for my younger siblings for long periods of time and she helped me prepare meals, do laundry and clean house without ever complaining or appearing bored.
I even remember going over to stay with her at her grandmother’s house where she lived and it being extremely warm because the gas heaters were always on. I remember Pat’s little room with her tiny little clothes rack hanging over the corner of her bed. We had so many fun, giggly times at her grandmother’s house. I loved being there with Pat and her grandmother because it always felt safe.
One particular day, we were at my house when another friend came over to work on a science project with us. Our friend was rarely allowed to be out of her house as her mother was extremely protective and had somewhat of a history for being a little overly dramatic. As we worked away, our friend’s mother can over and started yelling at me, calling me and my family derogatory names, and since there was no adult at home she felt comfortable to come at me and attempt to slap me -- then out of nowhere Pat came running out of the house and shoved her plum off the porch
The three of us just stood in shock, but the mean mother left. I remember thinking that I had never had someone stand up for me that way. And that incident was just one of many times that she proved to be a true friend. When other girls at school were being mean- girls she always took my side—even when I was wrong!
Thank you Pati for teaching me what true friendship means. Thank you for believing in me and standing by my side knowing that I all I had to offer you was my very humble but sincere friendship! I am so blessed to have a friend in you. May God bless you and yours always!
As young teens, we were inseparable. We went everywhere together, we laughed together, we cried together. The thing I remember the most about Pat is her absolute loyalty to me. She never judged me for the impoverished lifestyle I lived. She helped me with all my chores including caring for my siblings. I was often left to care for my younger siblings for long periods of time and she helped me prepare meals, do laundry and clean house without ever complaining or appearing bored.
I even remember going over to stay with her at her grandmother’s house where she lived and it being extremely warm because the gas heaters were always on. I remember Pat’s little room with her tiny little clothes rack hanging over the corner of her bed. We had so many fun, giggly times at her grandmother’s house. I loved being there with Pat and her grandmother because it always felt safe.
One particular day, we were at my house when another friend came over to work on a science project with us. Our friend was rarely allowed to be out of her house as her mother was extremely protective and had somewhat of a history for being a little overly dramatic. As we worked away, our friend’s mother can over and started yelling at me, calling me and my family derogatory names, and since there was no adult at home she felt comfortable to come at me and attempt to slap me -- then out of nowhere Pat came running out of the house and shoved her plum off the porch
The three of us just stood in shock, but the mean mother left. I remember thinking that I had never had someone stand up for me that way. And that incident was just one of many times that she proved to be a true friend. When other girls at school were being mean- girls she always took my side—even when I was wrong!
Thank you Pati for teaching me what true friendship means. Thank you for believing in me and standing by my side knowing that I all I had to offer you was my very humble but sincere friendship! I am so blessed to have a friend in you. May God bless you and yours always!
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